“If your date asks about it, just say, ‘Yes, I’m involved with others, but I’m a private person and not comfortable going into the details.
I want you to know I respect your privacy as well.’” you want a commitment and your partner says “I’m not ready,” don’t fool yourself into thinking it means “But stick around in case I change.” Your options are to date the person casually or date someone else who ready to commit—don’t assume time will change his or her mind.
When Jennings confided to one woman that he had only “cuddled” with another date, she went into a rage.
“I thought I was doing her a favor by explaining that I wasn’t sleeping around,” he says. Schwartz explains that too much information, while well-intentioned, simply results in jealousy.
“I find a woman who seems interesting, we go on six or seven dates, have good chemistry, and sometimes even sleep together.” That’s when things often begin to fall apart: when the relationship becomes intimate. “Sometimes I feel that it’s better to be alone than to date people and hurt their feelings.” Fortunately, there … Schwartz suggests a clearer alternative that doesn’t leave room for interpretation: “I want you to know that I’m trying to figure out who’s right for me, and I’m going to make myself take a long time before I commit to anyone.
One person nudges toward commitment, his or her date explains that he or she isn’t ready to settle down, and, since there seems to be no middle ground, both often carry on with two different sets of expectations that go unfulfilled. If that kind of open-ended timeline isn’t OK, then please know I’m not the right person for you.” It’s one thing to tell someone you’re dating others; it’s another to give him or her details of your encounters that cause self-doubt and comparisons.
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