Most women have this inexplicable need to make every guy want them and then they get upset when they find one who doesn’t and start to wonder what’s wrong with them.The biggest obstacle standing between most guys and their dream relationship is that they never even try approaching great women…all because they’re scared of being “rejected.” Of course, it’s easy for guys to convince themselves that they’re trying. They go to the gym and maybe they even ask a woman out once in awhile.The upside is that my experience and past pains have helped me develop certain skills and insights to deal with rejection while keeping my sense of self intact. The fact is, you can’t make everyone like you and you can’t make every guy attracted to you.There will be people who don’t get you or who don’t like your look but none of that matters.
Sure, on a bad day (for any number of reasons) a woman may act coldly towards you, or totally ignore you when you approach her.
When our spouse leaves us, when we get fired from our jobs, snubbed by our friends, or ostracized by our families and communities for our lifestyle choices, the pain we feel can be absolutely paralyzing.
Whether the rejection we experience is large or small, one thing remains constant — it always hurts, and it usually hurts more than we expect it to. Why are we so bothered by a good friend failing to “like” the family holiday picture we posted on Facebook? Why would something so seemingly insignificant make us feel angry at our friend, moody, and bad about ourselves?
When people think of dating, they think of giving their potential date the moves, slipping in some smooth talk and then feeling awesome when it all just clicks and comes together.
Unfortunately that's rarely the case, as these gents found out.